What do you do when you take your children to see family and friends and they offer them food that you don't want them to eat?
MIL does most of her shopping at Aldi which is a pretty bad offender when it comes to the nasty additives.
I'm trying to cut this stuff out of my families' meals but at the ILs my boys get it offered to them by the bucket.
Yasin has only had nightmares a few times in his life and every time it has been after a night at the ILs. I can only put it down to the chemicals in the food.

I try to feed the boys before we go but she still offers them snacks.

I'm not sure what to do. Should I ask for the packet so I can check the label or is that too rude (she takes offence easily)
I used to just say we don't let them eat those foods but then DH pointed out that I have given them crisps etc so that excuse went out the window.

How strict are you about dietary guidelines when you visit?