Well home life as you know can be busy for even the most organised of people.

I would always like to be able to spend more 'quality' time with the kids. We love our 'reading time' together, having meals together, playing chasey around the house. Admittedly DD gets a bit more attention as DS is only 5 mths, but he watches and gets tickles etc. But when DH is home we sort of 'pick a kid' to entertain so they get one on one attention, and of course we make sure we get equal amounts of time with both kids.

Before you judge yourself so negatively, have a close look at a regular day in your household. What sort of things do you all do together. What sort of things would you like to do together? What needs to happen for you to achieve that?