Hi there, I have a stepdaughter who is 13.5 years old and lives with her mum. I've been around since she was six, and we get along really well. Unfortunately there have been a number of issues with her and DH's relationship and also a few court cases, which have further stressed their relationship. She comes around whenever she wants (although we have to do all the transport) and loves her little brother to bits. She has ordered a sister though! She also has a 21 year old half-sister (by her mum), and her mum has now married a guy (who's the same age as my Dad) who has kids nearly my age, so she has step-brothers who are in their twenties too.

I'd hate to draw her family tree!