OOOH, I hate when ppl make you feel guilty about not going or doing something due to money & then they thinka token amount will solve it! Have they not heard of... WE JUST DONT WANT TOO!"

I ahve had it with one of my dearest & best friends recently she had her birthday at the Melbourne Cup, I dont have frocks, I dont froc up for anything!!!!
Plus the inlaws were here so i said I wasnt gonna be able to amke it, it would have been a bloody expensive day out, so she offers me umpteen dresses to borrow...
In the end I just told her the Cup didnt interest me right now, she was hurt, but when I took her to U2 concert for her present I think I made up for it!!! hee hee

Oh well Fiona, it wasnt addressed to you, but I'm sure you can help spend it!!! LOL