I agree with you, I think people give presents for all sorts of things they don't need to. It isn't grandmother's day, it is mother's day. My boys don't give their grandmothers presents, I never gave my grandmothers presents. Well, actually...I probably did in the days where you made lots of crappy stuff at primary school to take home . I think your daughter should wish her Grandma a Happy Mother's Day because she is A mother, but a gift is not necessary.