I agree too! It's mother's day. This year my ILs bought me a present because I'm the mother of their grandchild, I don't mean to sound ungrateful, but I don't think they needed to do that. I think MIL would like things from me too but I never have got into that before Glad I'm not the only one. It just doesn't feel right to me. DP is in Adelaide visiting his rellies at the moment and he commented it would be good because he'd be there to have Mother's day with his Granny. I just think, yeah but she's not your mum. I feel like I'm heartless or something and I'm the odd one out with all this amongst the ILs.