That is the question...

DH has his heart set on three kids. I am not so sure. I can see myself being pg again, but I am struggling to understand how I will cope with three kidlets.

DD was hard work sleep wise, that passed, then she was hard work behaviourally, that passed, now she's waking up every hour overnight again

DS was hard work sleep wise, that is starting to pass but he is now taking over as the hard work behaviourally one!! Argh!

How will another fit into this chaos?

How did you decide? I know it has been asked before but I want some fresh perspectives...