The only negatives are the questions I get from strangers... 'Oh, the baby was an accident, was she?', or my personal favourite 'Oh, the older two have a different dad, do they?'. (Regardless of the fact that all three look very much the same.) Meh, who cares what strangers think anyway.

I reckon there are pros and cons for every age gap, but I certainly don't see any problem with my two close together and then another one a few years later!

I can't believe that people would actually say that to you. It just amazes me that people would even ever think to say to to anyone.

I think that too about when we have our 3rd would I be able to convince DH that we can have our 4th close together. I would love to but getting DH to come around to the idea of having a 3rd baby has been some work. but you never know.