If only!! Her reaction is going to be 'OH F**K (insert dp's name here) OH F**K!! Then we will hear from my SIL she's been crying for days

She already warned us if we have 'Bastard Children' she will disown us.

Its just not fair though ... Sometimes old fashioned values & beliefs are annoying.

BTW - Its not as if we werent planning on being married, we were That was the whole point of concentrating on myself to lose weight so we could get married then start tring again
Skybie - the only shrieking will be of cuss words aimed at me!!!
It might work out better for you if she disowns ya Sorry, I can be a ***** about ILs. Hoping she is mature enough to accept har grandchild for you and your DP. It'll be kinda sad for both your grandchild and your ILs if they don't.