DP will break the news to her by himself - I think thats something he wants to do

I love this!!
But really, I'd just take shat she tries to throw at you and let it slide. Who cares what the old bat says? You're having a baby!
So true!

Zaki&Amali - thanks for the congrats

Of course this is our decision - it would be nice to have the support from his mother though. Which he never gets sraight away (like his brother does, his bro is the FAVORITE and it stands out like a sore thumb!!)

Sad tho really ... But it will be HER loss ... and wont be very comfortable at family functions, but her choice, we will just ask not to be seated near her if things are that bad

She is more old fashioned than my Grandma who is older than Dp's mother!

I just don't get why people are so concerned with what other people have to say? ya know? ....