my nan had a fall about 3 weeks ago and broke her arm and dislocated her shoulder and since then her memory's getting worse and dementia is kicking in (dads a ex nurse) she is 81 though. i wonder whats going on in the retirement village? something else iv just thought of is my nan broke her coxix years ago and the fall has aggravated it badly so it could be a old injury that causing her pain. huge hugs huni its a hard situation xx