When DH and I first talked about children we both agreed that 3 would be a great number (we both came from families with 3 children) but since we found out (and keep finding more) about DD's health problems we have decided to stop at 2. We're both not 100% happy about that but we feel it's only fair to her and DS since we can give them both now the attention they need but if we had another baby all three would miss out.

It's also better for us financially, especially now as we have been personally affected by the financial crisis.