mine is words of affirmation. DH's is touch

i think DH and i meet each others needs pretty well. DH knows to say things to me all the time, he'll always say 'hey honey you look nice' or 'the house looks nice' or 'thanks for doing the dishes' etc. Lovely positive things that always get me feeling good.

And DH, well i give him massages, play with the back of his neck when watching tv, etc....i've figured out what he likes