Who else has been married to a Narcissist spouse?

[bubno.3]

how long was it before you knew 'hang on where did my charming husband go?' and can you pin point a eg of when it changed?

[blessedatlast]

never thought of my ex as this before.. I was always blown away by his lack of empathy.. As soon as I read the lines "Self centred and lacks emapthy" I knew it was him.