We are about the same.......but it has taken a few years....

It used to be that DH was a lot more lenient, until he realised that the inconsistencies between our parenting made for even more issues.

We now make a real effort to chat about the best approach, then when a situation comes up, we are consistent.........

But I tend to be stricter overall.......I am with them all the time.......so take the "bad cop" role! LOL!