TBH we haven't talked about it yet.
I would like my brother and SIL however they have 3 kids and another one on the way and wouldn't have the finances to take on another child. The 4th is going to be hard enough!!
So in that Case I would maybe want my parents to look after her, the only problem with that is my dad has hep C and can get very cranky easily and I wouldn't want him yelling at her the way he did to me when I was younger.

I wouldn't want DH's parents because I feel they wouldn't raise her the way I want her to be raised... I have no idea what DH thinks though and I know my MIL would probably be upset if my parents became the carers of our children... But that wouldn't matter because we wouldn't be here to cop it! Lol.

I'm glad this came up because we obviously need to talk about it and let the people know!!!