We have no family here is qld have some friends with kids but we are not very close and catch up regualry I send my son to care 2 days a week otherwise he will not mix with kids until he goes to school I do feel isolated at times and I do feel that both my boys will be loners when they grow up as we dont have the connections some people have that is why I am trying to get involved with as many groups as I can but have been slack in going to them. Our family is so distant on both sides which is sad I am not talking to a brother and a sister but what can you do so I know how you are feeling