I was talking about this today. And I came to realize that staying for the kids have different meaning to different people and different relationships.

I think there is a time we stay for the kids because we are trying hard to keep their family and stability together, sometimes it's easier, then there comes a time that the relationship you are in has a very adversed effect on the kids and it comes a time when you "leave for the sake of the kids".

I think that every relationship is different and not necessarily staying for the kids is a bad thing. And I would hope that anyone would have a good support network around them to let them know when it might not be working. Sometimes it's easier to see on the outside looking in.


Love MN ;-)