Meat really is the best food for babies and iron, as this is the only source of iron which is readily absorbed. This is why it is now recommended as one of the first foods to be introduced. Would she eat a pasta bolognaise or something like that? Sometimes mum have luck with scraping meat into things, or with giving their little one some cooked steak to suck or chew on (big enough pieces so they can't choke), or even smooth, strong bones to suck/chew on. Do you think any of these ideas would work?