Hi Airline, Sorry to hear you're having such a rough trot with weight gain. I just wanted to let you know that my Paed told me to 'demand feed' - which he meant when I demanded it, not the baby, and never less than 3 hourly. I'm so glad I was too tired to remember what he'd said & did proper demand feeding. I remember feeding 20mins or more each side many times. You might be interested to know that feeding within an hour of when the feed started (so a 'top up') is still classed as part of that original feed. I read that out of a book after a couple of weeks of feeling guilty for topping Jack up a couple of times a day, thinking I was doing it wrong. Really, it's baby's way of a) getting the fatty goodness they need, and b) building up production in your boobs.

As for anything else, I think Manta Ray has said it all. And if you have a niggling feeling that Save Our Sleep isn't working for you or your baby, there are other ways out there that might suit you AND baby better.

Good luck with your little boy.