Hi All-

My name is Molly, I am 21 and I have been with my parnter Kelly for 7 years. I realize that I am jumping the gun in thinking about children, but I have always known that I want to have babies and definitely want to try before I'm 30. I recently purchased The New Essential Guide to Lesbian Conception, Pregnancy and Birth and have been getting a lot of information. I feel like I would be more comfortable doing an at home insemination, the problem is everytime I try to talk about this with my partner she just gets anxious. She has told me that she wants children, but she doesn't feel like we should talk about it now. Another thing we have different arguments about is the sperm donor. Should it be someone we know or annonymous? I feel more comfortable with someone we know and trust, but she wants it to be from a sperm bank. I think my main thing is that I want to be able to tell my child in the far future who his/her father is instead saying "uh...i dunno." Anyway I feel like this dissagreement is unsettling and I was wondering if any of you have experienced anything like this. I feel like Kelly and I should be on the same page 100%, even though this won't be happening too soon.

Any info or stories would be appreciated Thanks!