Hi Leasha-

Thanks for your reply, it made sense. She has said that the reason she wants an unkown donor is because she doesn't want anyone to be apart of the child's daily life. In my ultimate view of the situation the donor would be a family friend who would be an "uncle" and wouldn't want to be a "father" type figure. This may be a little naive thinking, but that is my vision. Of course I have no idea as of right now who that would be. I do understand some of her fears, I am just really concerned about the background of the donor and behaviorism etc. At least we have a long time to think and discuss, sometimes it just worries me that she would rather not talk about it, because I think about it everyday.