yeah unfortunately with the gay dads yahoo group the majority are very political and are solely interested in surrogacy so they can tell the child it doesn't have a mother .......just like there are many lesbians who choose an unknown donor so they can tell their child it doesn't have a father.

I'm not saying this is right or wrong but unfortunately it leaves those of us who are happy to have known dad's /mum/s /coparents out in the cold.

Also try a yahoo group called Rainbow Families !

Don't know what state you are from ? Each state has gay/lesbian newspapers/magazines that you can advertise in as well.