We have to wait because our friend(doner/dad) arrives from England! But your right, its very difficult to wait. My sister to sent me a fertility monitor, it track every day of your cycle and apparently gives you a 6 day window of fertility. We're also armed with "The New Essential Guide to Lesbian Conception, Pregnancy and birth" ! so bring on October!

Just a query though, do you think its true that the sperm should have the least exposure to the air as possible in order to be at its best? eg. placing a lid on as soon as possible after ejeculation? or am I over thinking it all?