Catrinalee, thank for your thoughts, they mean more than you know.

Alisia, I know what you mean, Vic is just really ticked off at the moment. Vic has been gay her whole life and has had to deal with the ignorance of such people, I on the other hand have been only "out" for 4 years and have not had to deal with any bigotry at all as yet. My family have all been extremely supportive as have all our friends and my two boys who love her to death! I am just focusing now on the baby, the kids and Vicki and to hell with everyone else at the moment, I just want to pack up everything and run away! Anyway, it is nice to be able to talk to someone about it. I am so very so you own mother is being the way she is, at the end of the day we cant choose our family but be can choose our life and I wish you and Shel and your baby all the peace and happiness the universe can give.