i sent her the letter my lawyer advised me to saying that she is to bring her back immediatly or face further legal action, she got this then i got a phone call where she said that they both (her and my daughter) had passports so try and find them, she then went on to say she has got dna results proving who the sperm donor is and that he would be writing a letter saying the donation was for her only, which really hurts, we had been together for almost 2 years when we decided together to have a child and i was there for them both the entire time. The lies and the betrayal and hurtfulness of this just makes me angry how can someone do this, i still speak to my daughter everynight and every night she says she wants to come with me. My ex doesnt care less about what any of us wants. I will be ringing the lawyer again to find out where i stand if she does go to court and lies through the whole process.