making decisions at the moment probably isn't the best idea - the day you find out a cycle has failed, you're usually a bit of a mess and you either go into stubborn "we WILL do this" mode, or uber protective "i'm not putting myself through this anymore" mode. neither one will help you decide

if i were in your situation, i would probably give it a go next month - not so much that i would want to push ahead (i kinda liked having time to lick my wounds) - but because the medicare system is supposed to change in January, so the out of pocket expenses will be much higher. if you can get a stim cycle in before the end of the year, and then only have the FET costs (if needed) after that.... kwim?

i'm really sorry to hear of another failed cycle - it's so damn hard

BG