I am getting desperate and I just want some info...

Did you go on the waiting list or go private?
How long were you on public waiting list (and how long ago was that?)
Do you have any regrets?
Anything you might have done differently?

I am really struggling emotionally and this is something largely contributing to it. I am also 40 kgs overweight and exercise is nigh on impossible when sports bras don't come in your size and normal bras give you zero support even for light intensity exercise...