Sorry had to cut my post short before - screaming toddler.

Whereabouts in Melbourne are you? I would love the details of your surgeon - thanks so much.

I am feeling in a much better place psychologically now that we are back here so i need to get into a mindset to get healthy again. It is not motivation i am lacking it is commitment and then when i lost commitment i lose motivation. If that makes sense. I find it really hard to push through pain barriers (whether than be back/breast pain or indeadequate fitness pain) and then it gets too much. Or for instance, hubby and i had been eating well and getting into good routines and now i have been sick for a month since starting my new job (back to childcare work) and will take time for my immunity to build. Sensible me knows sweating it out is great to kick the bugs but sick me is like - uh... yeah right.

Anyway sorry for that long winded chatter-blab Point is, i am keen to make changes to myself to make it a better 'opportunity' i jsut have a lot to work on. Life has been a bit stalled with how incapcitated i feel by my breasts (clothing is the worst thing) but i leapt a hurdle and got married instead of putting off the big day for when everything would be perfect - know what i mean?

Anyway - you should hang around BellyBelly - its a great community!!

introduce yourself here - https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...ome-say-hello/

you said your DD (dear daughter) is 2 - you can find your baby 'buddy' group here - Baby & Toddler General Discussion - Pregnancy, Birth & Baby Forums ~ BellyBelly

and id say you migth find this forum useful - General Health, Fitness & Well Being - Pregnancy, Birth & Baby Forums ~ BellyBelly

thanks again