Yes I do think my mood will change apart from hormons I think I will be saddned by the loss of youth the realiseation that even if I didnt want I cant have anymore children!!! and just the plain know that my body is telling me that I am ready for the next stage in my life even if I dont feel like Iam ready for it...

As for MIL she had been going through her change when I meet DH and now its 12 yrs latter so dont think she would still be going trough that... Plus she used to be nice to me ( well to my face anyway)she has now changed after DH's father died 3 yrs ago she has nerver liked me sence so I now think that she was told to hold her tounge by my FIL but can let lose now...