Painful sex **ouch** TMI

[~Kim~]

TD google vaginimus or vulvodinia.

[Turkish Delight]

I'm starting to think its vaginismus

[~Kim~]

sucks doesn't it?

[Turkish Delight]

totally. me thinks i need to see the gyno.

now i know why i always seem not to be able to relax when DTD and when i get a pap smear done. Last year, when i was due to have a pap smear, the dr. said that i needed to relax my muscles otherwise the clamp was going to pop out.

[willow5]

Last year, when i was due to have a pap smear, the dr. said that i needed to relax my muscles otherwise the clamp was going to pop out.

I'm not trying to make light of your problem, but the visual that comment has put in my head of the doc being smacked in the head by the clamp shooting out at him

But seriously I hope you get it sorted soon!

[Turkish Delight]

PMSL. now that you've given me that mental image.

[~Kim~]

TD make sure you find one that is sympathetic and knowledgeable of these issues. Many aren't. I've had it about 12 years now and nothing has helped.