I have 2 beautful daughters who are both very challenging they are disrespectful, they dont listen, they trash everything they get & I mean trash it things only last a couple months TOPS here I have tried rewards programs, taking toys off them, taking TV away from them, time out, I have literally tried every trick in the book without fail and they just dont get it. Cant they see what they are missing out on when all they need to do is settle down a bit and learn some respect.
My 5 year old has a pead app next month she is being assessed for Oppositional Defiant Disorder & mild autism she is the real out of control one she is extremly touchy and is always hurting kids.

Any advice.

TIA
xx