She NEVER wakes up and has to start screaming to get me or DH to wake up - we are all in tune with each other.

Kate
Neither of my kids have had to scream to get attention, even when not in the same room, and sometimes the other end of the house without a monitor.. When we were away on the weekend, my DH was sleeping in the room with the children, and I ended up on the lounge cause DD was wriggling too much, he was about 50 cm from DS and he didn't even here him, yet I was in the room from the lounge to get him up for a feed cause he was stirring and starting to grizzle, far from screaming!

And when DS does scream (and he does a lot according to my neighbours ) it is when we are getting him a bottle or trying to get him to sleep in our bed, def not when he wakes up alone!