I'm not convinced of the link to sexual abuse. Usually this is perpetrated by someone a child is already comfortable with. I believe you strongly reinforce what is inappropriate touching, even to very young children.

But I do believe we should respect children's boundaries the way we respect adults. This is going to vary in different cultures and personalities!

It's also why I don't hand my baby to people who are strangers to her for a cuddle. I think she should be able to get to know them first and then we'll see.