Wow thanks so much guys, just to know others are out there and that I feel supported has brought tears to my eyes. In my heart I know I've been doing the right thing for DD but DP thinks that it's all wrong and it has created many arguments lately as he's had enough which is making me feel torn as I don't want to rush DD into her bed but then want to make DP happy as well?? He tells me that nobody else does what we do and that we're not a 'family' in the 'traditional' sense as mummy & daddy aren't in bed together. Truth be told I think I prefer sleeping with DD anyway as she doesn't snore!! I tried her bed last night but she has a toddler bed and she loves to cuddle to sleep so I have to squish in as well, then after milk and 3 stories she said 'mummy's bed'. So off we tottled to the big bed which later started another argument that I'm not trying hard enough and 'who's the parent?' Sorry went off track needed to vent! Anyway, thanks for suggestions I might suggest to DP that we move her bed into our bedroom and see how that goes down!? How do you guys think you'll approach moving your little ones into their own room?