Co-sleep moving to own bed

[Softy]

Thanks for the replies it's FANTASTIC to have so many reply that they are co-sleeping as well and cherish the times while our little ones are little.

She doesn't sleep through the night But wakes for milk top ups in her sippy cup 1-2 times a night...I know she shouldn't and I'm slowly cutting down the amount....just can't quite deal with a 2 year old tanty at 1 or 2am IYFWIM!!

Good to know Sloane that you sleep on a mattress on the floor in DS room this is exactly what I've been thinking of doing. We have done it twice before where DD actually went to sleep in her toddler bed but when she woke came onto the floor with me which I didn't mind cause lets face it they're soooo cute! Think I will go back to that strategy and keep at it this time so poor DP can go back to the bed. And slowly as she gets used to the idea I'll move further away.

Think DP gets frustrated as he doesn't have the same bond as me and DD and also think he might want another bub so in a way we each kinda have one and he doesn't see that happening if I'm still sleeping with DD but as you Boomba and others have said you can co-sleep with more than one, I guess it's just a juggle to make sure everyone gets some of your attention and nobody feels left out....I think DP has been feeling a bit left out Thanks again everyone for your advice & support I really appreciate it

[onthefly]

Bah! Lots of people sleep with their kids.
If you or your DD are uncomfortable with the transition, a half-way measure like pushing beds together or a mattress on the floor might be one way to go.
I slept on mattress on the floor with DS for aaaages. Then after his sleep started to settle down and he began to be able to sleep alone, we switched him to a single bed. Aside from falling out once or twice, he's been fine in there unless sick (when he comes back to bed with me). We still spend time getting him to sleep in the night, but it works pretty well.

Just give the gradually moving away approach a try and see how you go. You'll find out soon enough whether she's ready for it or not.

As for your DP - maybe try and set aside some special couple time too? Doesn't even have to be in bed.