ah ha! Mel I actually had a good laugh reading this... guess what? We are having issues over this very thing over here. DH just hates thinking that his time at home has to be spent discipling...and he & Matilda are at ends with each other more nights than not. Often it is when I am most tired and desperately need a break & he says "go lay down" then something happens & the two of them clash big time. And everytime they clash its over something that would never happen if it were me & Matilda.