I have decided to stick with my Mothers Group. I found it was much better being back in the health centre and with more people there. I just didn't get into anything more than polite conversation with those that upset me.

I spoke to my friend about it and she understood me and also agrees that we all should be able to parent differently and not be judged. She admits that she would not do some of the things I do, but that's my choice. She also explained that one of the mothers who came from a group in a more affluent area was actually quite shocked by our group. At the time, she was the only full time formula feeder (some mothers were bfing with comping) in our group, her previous group, there was only one mother breastfeeding, so for her someone doing gentle parenting is quite strange to her.

When I thought about the group a bit more I realised that the group is not just for me, but it is also for Maggie. She enjoys it. It is good to get her out of the house and she likes being with other babies (even if she is a bit rough with them). So for her sake I need to continue.

Once again thank you Ladies for all your advice and support.