Cosleeping and DTD?

[Indadhanu]

I can't do it when Jazz is in bed with us. Actually I can't do it when Jazz is in the same room LOL! I just need it to be us two, zone out and do our thing and not have to think "am I being too noisey?" We do it other places... theres LOTS of places...

I don't find it inappropriate, at 7 months I don't think its going to have any negative effect (and in fact if you want to get down to it apparently the sound of parents DTD is supposed to be relaxing because of the yummy hormones that would go through the placenta and apparently they associate the noise with the feeling... this is what I read somewhere anyway... so in fact it seems it quite the opposite of harmful PMSL!) at 7 months.

I'm not sure what age I'd find it inappropriate... I suppose it depends on when they become aware of whats actually happening KWIM. So whenever they get to that age. It would be different for each child I guess wouldn't it.

i didn't anser your question did I? Sorry!

[danniellabella]

We don't co sleep but have DTD in front of DD. Sometimes we just get the urge and she'll burst into the bedroom and wonder around the bed or we'll do it in the lounge. I do find it off putting, but at 1 year old she doesn't know what's happening. I think a bit later in the year as she approaches 2 it might become less appropriate.

[blackduckies]

Our babes always seemed to sleep through it, and before it became an issue they had moved into their own beds, by choice!! HHmmm maybe....they instintivly knew what was going on and had to leave the bed

[Oorki Galoorki]

i think its once they can start interupting by more then just crying or whinging... so by crwaling over or walking in the room...

[feeb]

I could not DTD with DS in same room let alone in bed, but if you are ok with it go for it.

DS is a very light sleeper so would wake him uo and screaming baby is a mood killer Lol, we have turned off moniter while DTD when he woke but were finished quickly as momment gone!

[Smoke Jaguar]

Have done it with DS asleep in the same bed, on the other side since he was born. Now he goes to sleep in his own bed, so mostly, that's when we'll go for it. Otherwise, when DS is awake, he's awake and there's no concentrating on satisfying horniness!

[1MOREPLZ]

yep managed to DTD with bub in bed when we co-slept now his cot is'side-carred' next to my side of the bed with just a safety rail on it and he sleeps through although he has woken slightly when i got abit noisey OOPs...but went back to sleep.

[Jennifer13]

The lounge room can be lots of fun!

[Sammiejane]

Otherwise, when DS is awake, he's awake and there's no concentrating on satisfying horniness!

Yep totally agree on that one!
JUst to clarify, it is only when she is asleep and usually when she is in a deep sleep, i am not one for an awake audience!

Thanks guys for your answers, its nice to be able to come on here and ask a question to like minded people and get an answer not a look like OMG - roll eyes - what IS she doing/thinking!!!

[[M]umma[M]ia]

i couldnt DTD while Mia is co-sleeping with us. We wait till she is down for the night and do it in other places around the house.. eg, lounge room. We have DTD once in our bed since she was born and it was coz she was asleep in her bouncer in the lounge. So sorry.. no co-sleeping sexin goin on here.

But hay.. its ur child, you choice