it's not a long term solution but for the short term is there anyone who can help you out for a couple of hours so you can have a rest?

i'm with barb as well - co-sleeping saved me. for me the agony was having to actually get out of my bed to tend to a baby that woke many, many times overnight. we started at around 5 months & i still spend part of the night with DS. it has saved my sanity & helped me get as much sleep as possible.

do you get any time for yourself during the day/week? do you get a chance to get some fresh air, exercise or even go & grab a coffee & read a book? those half hour breaks can mean the world of difference.

i know what it's like to dread every night & feel constantly tired & angry. keep talking to us when you get a chance & hopefully you'll get lots of helpful suggestions