it sounds like you're following your instincts and are a great mum!

i think anyone or any book that makes you feel like you 'should' be doing something that doesn't feel right, isn't worth listening to/reading.

the reason that you have found that Pinky's books don't necessarily apply directly to your baby, is because no-one knows your baby the way that you do. i just think her books are great at giving people self-confidence in trusting their mothering instincts and enjoying the moment with their baby. the time goes so fast so don't waste it trying to get your baby to fit into a 'perfect baby' mould.
xoxo