Angel - I agree with everyone, Kynan does not need to be left with someone else especially if you don`t want to.

Matthew has only been left once with my Dad and that was when Mark took me to Hospital to be admitted, I kicked up a fuss about leaving Matthew, not because of thoughts that my Dad wouldn`t know what to do (of course he knows exactly what to do with him) just that I don`t like being apart from him and you will know exactly what I mean. Anyway both Mark and Dad thought I was being silly so I left him, it was only 3.5 hours later that Mark was with him again then my Dad brought him up to Hospital where he stayed with me until I was allowed to go home 2 days later.

I have a good book which talks about staying with your children especially boys for a certain length of time, I`ll dig it out later and post exactly what it says for you.