Ladies, thx for your responses and sharing your thoughts!

It really is difficult and I know a majority of mothers experience these concerns but that doesn't ease the personal torment does it!?

Skeetaboat - I think the one - two hour sessions are a good idea! At least for the first couple of weeks.

Rahjah - if only I could stay at home with DD for 18mths I really would! As for it being a hassle for me that has never been (nor will it be) a consideration. Its about what is best for her.

Thanks Hansie. I have no doubt there will be plenty of tears (at least on my part) at first. And I know that the tears and wanting mummy/daddy is not going to be limited to the first few weeks. It makes sense doesn't it? Mummies and Daddies are our childrens favourite people we wouldn't want it any other way! I guess it is going to be one of those ongoing battles of motherhood!

Panda - I've read some of your other posts and your DS sounds adorable You've done exactly what I was planning on doing. I am just thinking of starting a little earlier than 9 months.

Thanks MantaRay - I hope to do FDC as well, subject to finding someone I am happy with!

Thx again ladies!