Thank you so much for your post pip2jays!!!! I feel a lot less alone!

Evan didn't eat a thing tonight. DH wants to get tough with him. So i did agree to stick to it. Tonight i didn't give him his cruskit, but instead gave him exactly what we had. He FREAKED. He didn't touch a thing, but we made him sit there and at least participate in family dinner time. He was so upset and exhausted that he fell asleep at 6.30 when i was putting Zaccy to bed. I felt awful. he's in bed now and hasn't eaten a thing since 12.30 when he had a yoghut. I feel terrible.

DH is worried about Evan's health. I have to admit i do think he looks VERY pale, and a friend told me to look under his eyes and if it's not real pink then he could have iron deficiency. And its not. Pip2jays, are you worried about your son's health? I feel awful either way - when he doesn't eat anything he's not getting the nutrients he needs, and if i get tough with him, now i feel terrible that he's gone to bed with no dinner

I truly honestly believe it is a FEAR of foods. I just don't know the best way to help him through it.