Thanks guys.... she is 6.5 so its driving me bonkers but she does have anxiety issues and I kinda feel bad, but I am also angry at myself for losing my temper. I have always been so patient but I am getting so much worse these days I dont know why. I guess I should also consider they just got back from interstate with their dad for two weeks, along with all the separation stuff and moving house... I love my daughter to bits but damn she is just so clingy with me. Need my space to let my mind rest feel so claustraphobic and the mind wont stop when they are awake...