How do you get a very stubborn little Mister to do things for himself? I'm talking simple things that he can do like get dressed, clean his teeth, and similar. He CAN do it himself but he flat out refuses to and it's doing my head in. I've tried bribery, threats, begging, explaining why, I'm sure there's more. He just stares slightly to one side of me (so not directly at me) and puts his defiant face on, or he says no, or he throws a tantrum. DH's solution to everything is time out but IT DOESN'T WORK! HELP!