Becky - i have misplaced the number - went to msg u yesterday for it but got sidetracted! hehehehe ops

nic - sounds like u have and are going thru everything i am at the moment - which for me is somewhat comforting too know that im not alone!
We gave in last night and let Bianca fall asleep in her bouncer and she slept from around 2330ish - 0500 - only waking briefly at 0300 when i just bounced her back too sleep - but that is not something we want her too get into a habit of! so after some googling and from chatting on here we seem too think she has got silent reflux - so we have elevated her cot with bricks so she will sleep a bit more upright - tried it this morning at 0730 and she slept until 1100!!!! which is a record - hopefully it wasnt just cause she was exhausted and hopefully it will work tonight.
I am however freaking about DH doing night shifts again - not sure how i will handle dealing with her screaming constantly without his help and support!