How do I find a "gentle" helper?

[Julie Doula]

I feel for you, Tiggy - may sweet sleeps be on the horizon for all.

Where's Mrs Doubtfire when we need her (er - him)???

Perhaps if you advertise specifically for a carer committed to Gentle Parenting/Guidance, you'd narrow it down.

Mmmm I remember how exhaustion triggers mastitis. It's tough for your baby to be in pain and hard for you to watch her in pain, I really hope there's a resolution soon and in the meantime, you sure do deserve a helping hand.

I hope the right person comes to you soon. Perhaps you can advertise here at BB? There are doulas who specialise in post-natal support, who I'm sure would love to help.