During the night DD feeds to sleep.

During the day she is rocked to sleep, then put down.

People have said to me that you can't teach self-settling without crying and I'm not interested in that. But how will DD ever learn to self-settle? Should I be doing something to teach her? I never even give her the opportunity bc she won't. If I put her in her cot she will play around then cry when she gets sick of it. She won't go to sleep by herself so I never try, just do our usual routine. So then how will she ever learn? I don't know how to help her learn?