Thanks so much for the responses... I just feel like I can't even settle her at times. It is like she is just peeved off with everything...or short tempered. I hope your right Barb. I have Menieres disease and have recently undergone treatment. I have not used the Baby Bjorn because my illness has caused me to become dizzy and have these horrid attacks which cause vertigo and make me fall. Hopefully I am over the worst of it so I will take your advice and start to use it again. I really feel like she just doesn't want to be with me at times....